Tough & Tender Therapy — Marriage or relationship counselor in Portland, OR
Address1135 SE Salmon St OR, Portland, OR 97214
Websitetoughandtendertherapy.com
Tough & Tender Therapy, based in Portland, Oregon, offers counseling services for individuals and couples. The therapist identifies as a white, queer, femme, cis woman, born and raised in the PNW, and is in a queer partnership. They specialize in supporting clients exploring queer and trans identities, processing trauma, understanding boundaries, and navigating relationship dynamics. Approaches include feminist-intersectional, parts work, narrative, and somatic perspectives. Services are available via telehealth and in-person for Oregon residents, with a limited number of sliding scale spots. The therapist aims to support clients in creating a meaningful life, believing in their clients' histories and hopes while acknowledging the impact of oppressive systems.
Best for
- Individuals exploring queer/trans identities
- Couples in relationships
- Clients processing trauma
- LGBTQIA+ individuals
| Key services | Couples counseling, Individual therapy, Telehealth sessions, In-person sessions, Online payments, New client consultation |
| Languages | English |
| Tags | couples counseling, relationship therapy, lgbtqia+ affirming, queer therapist, trans identity, trauma informed, somatic therapy, feminist therapy, parts work, portland oregon |
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